A Princess (Reflection from SFC Knights Tale and Princess Diaries 2015)


Being a Princess is not about having a crown but having a Good Heart, a Good Attitude and a Good Posture. A heart of a Princess belongs to God. We are created as women, we should be rejoicing because we are one. As women, we are the crown of Creation. Put in mind also the phrase from Talk 1 which says, “RELATIONSHIP TO BE PURSUED”, that we should be the one to be pursued. The HEART OF A WOMAN (Talk 2) always belongs to God. As a woman, we desire to romanced, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and to unveil beauty. We know deep in our hearts that “We are beautiful beloved children of God.” Be a better women after being PIERCED (Talk 3) and change to a NEW HEARTBEAT (Talk 4). The questions: Are we the Dominating Women, proving the lies are untrue by hiding or denying our heart’s desires or the Desolating Women, who affirms these lies by clinging to people, situations and relationships, hoping that they will fulfill these desires? As we started to change to a NEW HEARTBEATS, claim that Jesus has already healed our Pierced Hearts. We know we can’t do away with a lifetime of taunts in just one night but I am sure this talk helped us see something that most of the time we failed to see. As our speaker told us to Pray and Forgive Ourselves, Forgive Others -the women in our lives who failed to show us what true womanhood means, the men in our lives who failed to protect our fragile hearts, and those who failed to see how innately sensitive we are and treat us accordingly. As the speaker urged us to forgive God, because somewhere, somehow, or at some point in our lives, we have blamed God. (It’s true; we blame him most of the time). We are bombarded with questions in ourselves, in our hearts but only one should answer those questions- ONLY GOD SHOULD. And all His answers are a definite YES to all our questions, and I am sure that while we were dancing with Him that morning- I know, we knew it as the truth and that we were POWERED BY GOD’S LOVE (Talk 5).

God, indeed, has designed us, not only to be beautiful, but captivating, worthy to be pursued or romanced, and worthy to be loved, by the King Himself.

Others may not think so, but that is only because they do not believe this of themselves. Once WE do, we’ll see everyone as worthy of being the same – God’s creation, sons and daughters of the Lord…
His Princesses and Knights.

And that two days retreat, I am very much sure that we rediscovered the greatest romance of our lives.

And just like what I said that second morning, “Congratulations Princesses, you are already Redeemed by the love of God. HAPPY MENDING HEART!!!”

For KNIGHTS:
We can surely take care of ourselves, but PLEASE DO TAKE CARE OF OUR HEARTS. Hahaha!

We were born to Lead.
For we were made in His likeness
Created in His image and we were born to SERVE the Lord.

Born to Grace.
Born to Worship.
Born to Praise.
Born to be an instrument of God.

All for the Glory of God!

Love Yourself First


There are certain phases in life wherein it is absolutely reasonable to be egocentric, to love yourself a little bit more, and to focus physically, mentally and emotionally on achieving your goals, to do whatsoever and everything that you like, want and love. It is okay to let go of some relationships even if it is hard and painful but that doesn’t mean forgetting what had happened before or disremembering the ties, the smiles, the happiness and the love. It’s just that you know you really need time to help yourself heal from the brokenness caused by failed relationship. To mend your heart, to restore it and bring it back to what it really is, just like before, to fix yourself and to improve, to grow. To learn and pray for the gift of acceptance, to understand and to help yourself love again. It is completely acceptable to disconnect yourself from people who created a very significant part in your being. Notwithstanding the choice, the decision and the action, just remember that the intention is not to hurt other people especially those who have been part of this blissful life. You just have to Love yourself first.

Ito na ang Titulo


Isa sa pinakamahirap na gawin sa buhay

Ay ang pumili kung magpapatuloy pa o titigil na

Magpatuloy na umibig sa taong wala na

Magpatuloy na tuparin ang pangarap kahit sobrang hirap na

Magpatuloy sa buhay kahit minsan hindi na alam kung saan ang punta

 

Madalas tayong naghihintay sa bagay o tao na hindi naman sigurado kung darating nga o darating pa

Naghihintay  na sambitin sayo na patawad kung nasaktan ka at naghihintay ng tamang oras na humingi ng tawad kung nakasakit ka

 

Nakakalimutang mabuhay sa kasalukuyan

Dahil iniisip kung ano ang magiging kinabukasan

Napapabayaan ang mga bagay na nasa harap na

Dahil ang tinitingnan ay mga bagay na wala pa

 

Minsan pinipilit alamin ang lahat ng bagay

Kahit hindi naman na kayang abutin pa

Minsan pinipilit pumasok ulit sa buhay ng iba

Kahit  sila mismo’y ayaw na nila

 

Ayos lang naman sana ang subukan

Hindi naman mahalaga kung hindi magtagumpay

Huwag lang sanang makakalimutan

Na ang paghihintay ay may hangganan din naman

 

Bago ibigay ang sarili sa iba

Siguraduhin munang sarili mo ay kumpleto na

Baka kasi nagbibigay ka

Sarili mo pala’y nasisimot na

 

Mahalin muna ang sarili bago mahalin ang iba

Baka kasi pag minahal ka ngunit kulang ka

Isipin mong ang pagmamahal nila ay sobra-sobra na

Baka hindi mo makaya at bumigay ka

 

At kapag naman nagmahal ka

Siguraduhin munang handa ka

Ang pag-ibig at relasyon ay maraming sorpresa

Katumbas ng bilang ng saya at problema

 

Ang pag-ibig, hindi sapat na sabihing mahal mo o mahal ka

Hindi ito mararamdaman kung sa gawa ay hindi mo maipakita

Ang pag-ibig, hindi sapat na sabihing kasintahan mo na

Kung sa pagsisikap at oras naman ay nagkukulang ka

 

Ang pag-ibig ay hindi basta-basta

Hindi ito isang laro

Hindi ito ang sitwasyon para baguhin ang isang tao

Bagkus isang mahalagang biyaya kung saan ang dalawang tao

Gaano man kahirap makasama ang isat-isa

Kayang magsakripisyo para sa ikabubuti ng bawat isa

 

Sa pag-ibig may tumatagal talaga

Mayroon din namang pansamantala lang pala

Hindi mo alam, sa isang iglap ay wala na

Kaya sana pahalagahan ang bawat minuto na kasama siya

 

Sa pag-ibig may kumakapit at may bumibitaw talaga

Pero kung kakapit ka, siguraduhin mong nakakapit rin siya

Baka kasi ikaw nakakapit pa, siya pala ay bumibitiw na

Matutong ilugar ang sarili sa buhay ng iba

Baka kasi ang pagpapahalaga mo ay sobra na

Sa kanya pala ay wala ka lang kwenta

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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